Ok, today I’m gonna talk about relationships.  When you’re in a relationship and things are going good, how can you keep it from goin to hell?

If you ask me, it really relies on both parties. A relationship is a 2 way street and the BOTH of you should find ways to keep that intensity in your relationship.

One thing is to make sure to keep the bedroom activities fresh and exciting!  If yo man aint layin that pipe right and aint doin enough for you, you should feel comfortable enough to tell him. If you don't, that's YOUR fault.  You’re in a relationship, you SHOULD be able to talk about that shit!  And for all my niggas out there….it can be oh so simple to calm your woman’s mind and keep her from wondering if the grass is really greener on the other side.  Make sure your sex game is up to par, keep it fresh.  Watch some porn, like I mentioned in my previous blog, and try out some shit.

Ladies, keeping your man happy could be oh so simple if you let it be...Food, sex and honesty are bases you will need to cover to keep your man at home.  If u can’t cook, don’t go crying when he leaves you for anotha bitch who throws down in the kitchen.  You know what they say, the way to a man’s heart is thru his stomach. Haha Keep him happy in the bedroom and just be honest.  Niggas HATE the games y’all be playin, and quit trying to set a nigga up on some bullshit.  If u can’t trust ur man, don’t be with him!!!  If u keep blaming him for shit you have no proof of, u might just push him into doin it, since he’s already getting blamed for it anyway. Oh yeah, DON”T EVER change the T.V. when sports are on.  Just be happy that ur man is home, and not out fuckin your best friend. Haha

Personally, I aint really spent too much time dealing wit relationships, simply because of the headaches that come with one.  I know I'm a very picky person, and I can get turned off real quick if I see somethin in a girl that I don't like.  We all have our own checklist when we meet a person. For me, most importantly, if a woman doesn’t have respect for herself, she's not gonna go far with any man "PERIOD"...

Fellas, just like us, ladies want honesty and trust.  Ladies take being cheated on way differently than us.  To us, we just think of it as fuckin another bitch…no feelings involved.  The ladies take it on a WHOLE other level.  Another thing playas, women love attention, so if u can, try to be attentive….that would be nice.  Haha  Lastly, I’m just gonna say ‘go wit the flow’. Haha  Naw, I guess, just pay attention to the little things because they always seem to turn into big problems.  One mo thing…none of this is gonna work without understanding!!!
Just my advice, take it for what it is.

Please shoot your ideas for future blogs to me @itsthacannon I want to talk about what you want to hear!!